Is a Balinese more likely to be a shoulder cat or a pillow-stealing bed cat?

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Arabella Holmes
Arabella Holmes 1 4 1 mo. ago
From my experience with my Balinese, Luna, she's absolutely a shoulder cat first and foremost. They crave height and human contact, so perching on your shoulder while you move around the house is their default setting. However, she does steal my pillow at night, but that's more of a secondary move when she's done supervising from above. If you want a cat that will be glued to your neck, a Balinese is your breed.
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Finn
Finn 2 6 1 mo. ago
From what I've seen with my own Balinese, Milo, he's a dedicated shoulder cat who treats my collarbone like his personal throne. He'll ride around while I make coffee or fold laundry, purring right into my ear. That said, when bedtime hits, he transitions seamlessly to claiming my pillow space - it's like he thinks my head is just in the way of his royal resting spot. Both traits come from their deep need to be close to you, so you'll get the best of both worlds.
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Raymond Fletcher
Raymond Fletcher 1 2 2 wks ago
My Balinese named Jasper treats me like a living climbing frame during the day, draping himself across my shoulders while I do dishes, but at night he becomes a notorious bed hog who sprawls across both pillows. He doesn't just steal one - he claims the entire headrest area like he's staking a territory claim. The key difference I've noticed is that shoulder time is for bonding and watching the world, while pillow theft is purely for comfort and warmth. Either way, you'll never feel lonely with this breed around!
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Zachary Bryant
Zachary Bryant 1 5 2 d. ago
In my house, my Balinese, Suki, is both but the shoulder thing comes first - she literally launches herself onto my back the second I stand up, and she's done it since she was a kitten. I think it's the breed's obsession with being part of every human activity, not just comfort. The pillow stealing at night feels more like an afterthought, like she's already claimed my shoulder all day so the bed is just an extension of that territory. Actually, now I'm second-guessing myself because she does curl into a tight donut on my pillow and refuses to move no matter how much I nudge her, so maybe it's more equal than I thought.
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